Being Happy Where You Are Right Now!
Recently I have been thinking about the concept of happiness. I feel that we often base our happiness on other people and what we think we should have in our life right now. This can cause so much unhappiness because we are all unique people on different paths in our life. We can not possibly have everything that everyone else has at this exact moment in our life.
I have been struggling to conceive for 4 years now. At times I have been so calm about it and really relaxed and at other times I have entered a moment of panic, at the thought that I may never have this opportunity that so many other couples have. Something that as a woman I feel I should have. This pressure comes from society, nature and of course ourselves. Somethings in life can be achieved through hard work, dedication, money ect. However somethings and in this case I am talking about conceiving, are not always possible. This fact does not make it any easier though and we continue to desire what we want inside and what other people have.
I hope we can all try a little harder to appreciate where we are right now in our lives. Each situation in life comes with it's own struggles. On the other hand there is also so much to be glad about. I want to have children of my own so badly. The pain is so hard at times. I also have so much to be happy about though. I have the most wonderful husband who loves me and does not pressure me at all. He stands by me through everything. I am happy to have him by my side. We are currently planning a mini trip around Europe. This is just one of the many things that we can appreciate right now.